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The last one

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

this is my last blog entry....
Hasta la manana amigos y amigas....

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Complex Women

Wednesday, March 22, 2006
These things happen - when time is at hand - there is loads of work to do - but better sense prevails.

Trust me - the response from both sides of the fence has been quite interesting.

Yeh sab asatya gyan mat failao prani...!!
Men are more complicated than women.
(now this is age talking)

women are complicated...just teh way men can be a wee bit dense and insensitive at times...:-)
(this is experience)

As the saying goes "Behind every successful man there is a woman." the male in the cartoon would have never known that he could come up with something as brilliant as this had the female responded to his questions in the initial attempts :)
(Deep thought being applied here)

(umm... left us speechless on that)

Well ...............I think men should be sensitive to the fact that women are sensitive................................:)
(very very sensitive...)

The female walrus/seal has a point in being offended I say!

RAJIV - in response to ANKU
As the saying goes "Behind every successful man there is a woman."
I would just like to respond to this by saying that “BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN THERE ARE LOTS OF WOMEN”

ANKU - vehement reply!!!
That only the man knows how many women are behind his success, but, I am sure and you will agree with me on this that the man would tell each
woman that she is the only reason for his success.
I would also like to draw your attention to another point that u do agree it is women after all who are responsible for the success of the man.
It is not about playing the blame game and getting in the gender to say that women are complicated or the men are complicated if you look at it we
as human beings are complex beings. No matter how hard we try at both our ends we always fall short of understanding each other....
If we stop blaming and really get down to being ourselves without being afraid to express I don't think this issue would remain as complicated as we make it to be.....

VANI - appreciating ANKU
Well said Anku!!

ASHA -with her 5 cents
wow...chutti ke baad toh Anku kaafi achche n gyan se bhare pravachan de rahi hai...good yaar...keep it up nJ...
n I agree wid u...

ARJUN - somewhere in the middle
So... nothing.... i bend forward and ask for forgiveness :-)

SARBANI - closing line!!!
That’s the point!
Tell You. Then explain. And then think why we took that route…
Give up.

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Something to write about

Sunday, March 19, 2006
Always looking for something to write about.
That's us - the blogger community!!

Today I have loads that to write. But I will control this impulsive heart.
It will be a good practice, moving forward.

This has been a period of surging emotions, some dead ends, some dark tunnels. But most importantly - I see the ray of light. As darkness turns to day - so also this life - I am happy!!!

No more the musings of a tortured mind desperate to escape the anguish of life. Life is here.
Right here, right now!!

"What's in a name?", so spoketh Billy boy (william shakespeare to the uneducated). A name like a prayer, a prayer for the living, so they may live - happily !!!
Jeez - I'm a total give away.

I'm quite sure - i'll have loads to write about, soon.
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Deep Observations on Life

Friday, March 03, 2006

"Relationships are hard. It's like a full time job, and we should treat it like one. If your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to leave you, they should give you two weeks' notice. There should be severance pay, and the day before they leave you, they should have to find you a temp."

Received this from a friend. Someone sure thinks right!

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Heart of Darkness

Friday, March 03, 2006

I have a dark side. But I am strong in the force. So the light prevails.

A woman I know - she talked of seeing my dark side. She said it was all pervasive and once someone got close enough, it dominated. I listened to her in silence, an impassive face I wore. It's not easy to say these things to another human - unless the emotions are extreme. Love and hate - two sides of a coin; quite interesting perspectives both!!!

This has not really been the best of my weeks. Health issues apart, my major failing has been relationships. Someone sees my dark side and walks off or someone calls me a drunk and walks off. I'm literally left staring at the sky and wondering what it was that hit me. Let me be honest - I do think both the girls were just that - girls!! I'm feeling extremely vitriolic at this point of time and just feel like lashing out. A count to 10 accompanied with some deep breathing should sort things out for the short term.

The issue still remains. What did I do wrong? They were close friends - or at least that was my perception.

Case 1: Calls me out of the office. We stand on the road. She tells me we're going no further. Se offers no reasons and I ask for none. I walk back to my seat in a daze and begin to wonder. Then this same woman comes and gives me this whole feedback about my dark side - especially after - I stay away from her - no talk - no eye contact for almost 5 days. I mean who the f*** does she think she is - Aura reader!!!

Case 2: I'm at a friend's wedding - an hour ago. I call up a friend and ask what she's up to. I thought that was a general kind of query. She asks where I'm at. I reply with the answer. I tell her I've had a few drinks cos' it's a marriage cum cocktails cum dinner. She acts real weird and tells me I'm drunk. So I say - OK, we'll talk tomorrow. I missed 2 calls since I was with the lucky couple and voila - I've been branded brain dead - with no hope of salvation. She acts weird, writes a few stupid SMSes and ends with a "I don't wanna be in touch" - like I care!!! I care enough - only to write about it. And to think that we call such women - cosmopolitan.

My sister thought both the cases were quite hilarious and we had a good laugh together. Then again - another point arises - it was about the choices I made. We are responsible for our choices and the consequences involved. You cannot be a perfect judge of character - but try and be close - cos' women will remain women (and so will men).

Life goes on. Here's to a new beginning!!

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